Practices & Techniques

Choking during sex has become much more prevalent, however, it is not a practice without controversy.

I’ve always been the stoner girlfriend in my relationships. I use weed daily, tend lovingly to my outdoor cannabis plants, and most of all I love fucking while high. Yet, most of my partners have been on a spectrum between cannabis-indifferent to cannabis-averse when we first start dating. Regardless, a few months into our relationship, my partners turn into avid cannabis users. Together, we discover the abundant pleasures of cannabis-infused intimacy. I’m very clear about not pushing anyone into using substances, but I offer a safe container when my partners inevitably express interest. I strongly believe that proper education can allow people to form healthy relationships with substances. I especially hold this belief in regards to chemsex. So, I’ll break down the process I go through with partners as they learn how to have fantastic sex while high!

I love sex and I love marijuana. One of the best things ever: sex whilst being high. But not every drug triggers the same high in the bedroom.

Before you turn the proverbial sex volume all the way up, creating kink boundaries is integral to becoming a kinkster.

Shibari is more than just a way to tie pretty knots—it is quite literally a captivating erotic practice that can be enjoyed with a partner or on your own.

Like most things in life, learning how to dirty talk takes time and practice. A lot of you might be thinking: “how can I get started if I haven’t ever explored dirty talk before?!” Although it’s very intimidating to start any new sexual skill, you have to just make the jump. There is no other way we are able to learn new things if we don’t just try.

To squirt or not to squirt? It might seem just a trivial reference to Shakespeare applied to explicit content.

The world of porn is vast, and it is quite easy for one to feel like you’re suddenly drowning in the sea of sexually explicit content, especially if sex has always been a taboo issue in your life. Don’t worry, we’re here to help! With our comprehensive guide, even complete beginners will soon be able to find their way around the broad pornscape – from security concerns, via popular terms and categories, to practical tips on how to incorporate porn to your sex life, we cover it all!

One kiss, six seconds, every day – for a period of two weeks: Couple therapists like to prescribe this dose of tenderness to keep relationships spicy.

Deepthroating doesn’t have to be awkward—it can be exciting, pleasurable and fun. Learn how to make it an immense pleasure for both of you with this comprehensive guide.

Is there truly any other better way of being woken up than having that special somebody slowly caress you and whisper tender and passionate words in your ear? It is common knowledge that sex uplifts your mood, and what could be better than starting off your day with a morning sex sesh or orgasm? But there are also a few things to keep in mind when it comes to morning sex.

Whilst blow jobs often seem to be expected, eating pussy still isn’t. For a lot of women having someone worship their vulva feels absurd. And I am using the word worship for a reason. So much shame exists around the look, the smell and taste of the pussy. Especially as the vulva is carried unseen on the body. Men wear their genitalia on the outside, where everyone can see them, evoking different kinds of insecurities, but the vulva as the hidden sexual organ has a different kind of forbiddance to it, a different kind of access and vulnerability. A lot of women are insecure about their pussies, yet all are beautiful and worth being worshipped and loved.

Anal sex and pegging are either despised or fetishised. In this article, our author Cleo King delves into the topic of anal: experiences, fears and the joy of intimacy.

Welcome to your extensive guide that helps you prepare for anal sex.

The issue with swallowing is not tied to the porn or the act itself but to the perceived obligation to swallow.

Dirty texting can be a fun way to spice up your sex life. Whether it is with your partner, with someone you are intimate with, or a move to show your interest in someone.

Do you know what sensations arouse you the most? We are rarely encouraged to explore what we truly enjoy. In order find out – consensually and with care – you can practice pleasure mapping. The Sex School hub shows us how it’s done.

While her vagina is penetrated and the front upper vaginal wall is stimulated, she massages her clitoris herself. At some point she feels the pressure, and suddenly she cums. In this way, women experience a female form of ejaculation: squirting.

Edging is the practice of stopping stimulation right before you are about to orgasm. This practice has many great benefits. Find out more here.

Find out why you should incorporate lube into your bedroom and which lube to use.

Navigating the art of giving blow jobs can often feel like delving into a mysterious realm, surrounded by unspoken questions that no one dares to ask. Will the experience be more enjoyable if I master deep-throating? Do I need to play with the balls? Are there any special moves I do not know about? What if I end up gagging?

Usually quite passive, with facesitting the oral recipient is given full control. We explain how this oral sex variant works!

Did you know that searches for prostate massages online tripled between 2004 and 2017? Once considered niche, prostate play is gaining popularity, especially among heterosexual cisgender men.

Was in aller Welt ist Orgasmische Meditation? Hat das überhaupt etwas mit Meditation zu tun? Gibt es Parallelen zum Tantra und – wie kommt man darauf?