How To Have Anal Sex for the First Time
Ah, the uncharted territory of anal sex – a topic often hyped up as well as frequently feared. We're with you, intrepid explorers! We felt the same when we started in the beginning. Today, The Oh Collective will take us on a journey of discovery, armed with stats, cautionary tales, and tips from us. So, grab your compass (and maybe some lube), because we're diving deep into the world of anal sex.
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Why Use Water-based Lubricant?
Water-based lubricant is a popular choice because it is safe to use with condoms and sex toys made of all materials, including silicone, latex, and rubber. It also doesn't dry out quickly, which means it lasts longer than some other types of lubricants. Additionally, water-based lubricant is easy to clean and remove, making it a convenient choice for both solo and partner play. It can also be beneficial for people with sensitive skin, as it doesn't contain irritating chemicals that some other lubricants may have.
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The ABC of Group Sex
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Mirror Masturbation
To reveal and observe your genitalia in a mirror can feel overwhelming, but using a mirror can help us form a deeper relationship with our genitals while moving our sexual life force energy through our body.
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5 Tips From a Sexologist to Spice Up Your Solo Game
People who masturbate usually have their routine pined down. Read on to see how you can spice your solo sex game!
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Kink is Colorful
In the African American world, there is limited space for interests lying outside of the societal norm when it comes to sex, which can lead to judgment, misunderstandings, and shame. That is why representation for queer people of color in the kink community matters.
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The ABC for Safer BDSM
The terms BDSM and kink often conjure images of latex-clad dominatrixes, whips, chains, ballgags, and blindfolds, but there is much more to it than that. Though my time in the scene have taught me things like how to swing the flogger with a certain degree of finesse, the most important skills I have picked up are far softer and have nothing to do with technique and appearances.
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Everything You Need to Know to Get Started with BDSM
What is BDSM? Bringing BDSM into the bedroom is a delicious way to spice things up! Whether you’re intrigued by bondage, dominance and submission or kinky role play – BDSM is a chance to deepen sensations and get playful in the bedroom. BDSM has become more popular in conversations about sex and eroticism, but it… Read More »PA Magazine
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Sober Sex: What Can We Learn From Porn Performers?
In collaboration with KOLONNE/NULL, CHEEX has conducted a survey on alcohol consumption in the dating world. As part of this survey, we asked porn performers what sober sex meant to them.
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Cum On – erlich textil goes Adult Film
"Cum On" ist eine filmische Zusammenarbeit zwischen CHEEX und erlich, die sich in das Reich der erotischen Selbsterkundung wagt und dabei ein faszinierendes neues Lingerie-Spitzenset präsentiert. Es ist eine Feier der Selbstbefriedigung und Sinnlichkeit, die jede Person dazu einlädt, eigene Wünsche und Entscheidungen mit unerschütterlichem Selbstvertrauen anzunehmen.
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How To Squirt
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How To Eat Pussy
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Dirty Talk Tips: Make Your Partner Beg for More
Like most things in life, learning how to dirty talk takes time and practice. A lot of you might be thinking: “how can I get started if I haven’t ever explored dirty talk before?!” Although it’s very intimidating to start any new sexual skill, you have to just make the jump. There is no other way we are able to learn new things if we don’t just try.
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A Fingering Guide
“Fingering is a lost art” a viral tweet reads. Once considered juvenile, the precision a good fingering technique allows is nothing to be left in the past.
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Sexting Made Simple
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Prostate Play
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How to Choke for Pleasure
Choking during sex has become much more prevalent, however, it is not a practice without controversy.
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Intimacy Is Not Always Sexual – Ways to Boost Your Self-Esteem
Often still, sex is mistaken for intimacy. Sex is merely one form of intimacy and getting physically close to someone does not mean intimacy at all levels.
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Blowjob: How To Let It Become A Mind BLOWing Experience
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The CHEEX Porn Glossary
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Why Sex Toys Aren’t Just For Fun
Let me just say up front that sex toys are a lot of fucking fun, and they're supposed to be. I mean, having fun is the sole purpose of owning any “toy”, and fun is the biggest reason we all have sex (I mean… did we really need science to tell us this?) By this measure, sex toys are probably the most inherently fun objects on the planet. This alone is a fantastic reason tocelebrate their existence, and the social changes of the recent past that have made them more widely available and less stigmatized.
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