Blowjob: How To Let It Become A Mind BLOWing Experience

Navigating the art of giving blow jobs can often feel like delving into a mysterious realm, surrounded by unspoken questions that no one dares to ask. Will the experience be more enjoyable if I master deep-throating? Do I need to play with the balls? Are there any special moves I do not know about? What if I end up gagging?

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Go Down On Me

In this article, I will provide you with simple tools meant to empower you to give the blow jobs you want to give. Your (sexual) partner is likely to appreciate them, but please take a moment to ask yourself whether you want to pleasure your partner(s) orally. It should go without saying that you are not obligated to give blow jobs if you don’t want to. I wouldn’t want someone to go down on me unless they genuinely enjoy doing so and vice versa.

Tell Me What You Need

Blow jobs can be beautiful and pleasurable for the giver! That is, of course, if you genuinely find joy in providing your partner with oral pleasure; appreciate exploring their body, penis and balls; and if you communicate openly about both your desires and boundaries. It’s important to recognise that every penis is unique and that each person has distinct preferences. Even though one might enjoy the feeling of a partner’s mouth wrapped around their dick, everyone has different preferences.

Before we get started, let’s address a fundamental question: What do you need from your sexual partner to pleasure them orally? It’s perfectly reasonable to express your needs, whether it involves a preparatory shower or reciprocal pleasure.

Sex Me Slow 

Picture this scenario: You and your (sexual) partner have just freshened up in the shower, and you’re in the mood to go down on them. You can start by taking some coconut oil and massaging your partner’s body, kissing their chest, ears and neck and then slowly working your way down to the penis. [Note: Cooking oils such as coconut oil work well as massage oil and lubricant, benefiting the body inside and out.] [Note 2: Make sure you only use latex-free condoms with oil, because oil can lead to tears in latex condoms.]

Allow yourselves the luxury of time to savour each moment. The build-up to the blowjob itself can be very exciting, so feel free to tease a little. Give yourself time to explore your partner’s body, and most importantly, enjoy yourself. How softly can you kiss? How provocatively can you bite? Does your partner like to be delicately caressed or scratched? Is it some combination of everything? Feel free to ask your partner how they want to be touched and what they enjoy. Some may find it challenging to articulate their sexual preferences, so if verbal expression is challenging, consider experimenting together to discover what brings pleasure to your shared playground.

I Love Dick

When your mouth wants to kiss your partner’s penis, keep taking your time. Slowly devour it. Delve into various sensations by licking from the shaft to the tip or by delicately holding, stroking or gently pulling the balls. As you wrap your mouth around the top part of the penis and begin sucking, let your hands massage their thighs.

You can use your tongue and your boobs (if you have a pair) to play or massage the perineum and the anus. Incorporating your hands during a blowjob adds an extra layer of pleasure—whether massaging the penis simultaneously or continuing to stroke and caress other areas of the body.

These are just a few things one can do and there are a thousand more. Remember, everyone is different. It isn’t your responsibility to give a great blow job straight away. Find out what your sexual partner likes and don’t be afraid to explore!

5 Rules for a Perfect Blow Job

  1. Discover what you want and need
  2. Communicate your needs and boundaries
  3. Ask your sexual partner what they like
  4. Take it slow and explore together
  5. Enjoy yourself

If You Feel Like This Has Not Been Practical Enough:

Last but Not Least

While the tip of the penis is incredibly sensitive, other erogenous zones are abundant, including the perineum, balls, anus, thighs, and more to explore. You don’t need to worry about fitting the entire penis into your mouth—you’ll still be able to blow their mind.

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