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Asexual Intimacy: Partnered Aces Share Their Experiences with Non-Sexual Intimacy

Yasmin Benoit
The phrase "being intimate" is too often used synonymously with "having sex." Intimacy within romantic relationships is often reduced to being sexually active with your partner, as if that is the only way to be intimate with someone.Let’s discuss the experiences of those who are often left out of conversations about intimacy and expand our understanding of what makes a relationship – ‘romantic’ or not – an intimate one.
By Yasmin Benoit 6 min read

Queering Your Relationship(s)

When thinking about queer relationships, the first thing that may come to mind are homosexual relationships – but queer relationships do not exclusively have to do with who you are attracted to, but with the dynamics within too.
By Anastasia Pinheiro 5 min read

Party of Two: A New Take on Queer Monogamy

Are you properly queer if you only date one person? Explore new perspectives on monogamy, from attraction to sex to personal satisfaction.
By Felix Jung 5 min read

Why Do We Need to Teach Kids About Sex?

Looking past the nervous laughs and side glances, sex ed in school always left much to be desired. While sex ed should equip young people with knowledge and skills to have a healthy lifelong relationship with sex, it remains a controversial topic. Why? Where are we going wrong and how can we improve?
By Natalia Murcia C. 5 min read

How To: Missionary

Ena Dahl
The only boring thing about the Missionary Position is its name, to which I propose the French term, The Classic, as a more fitting alternative. The most common of all sex positions, the Missionary is incredibly versatile and can be altered endlessly to add variety and different types of stimulation.
By Ena Dahl 5 min read

The Art of the 69 Position: How to Perform Its Many Variations

Let's talk about all the great ways to enjoy simultaneous oral sex with a partner, whether you're a penis-owner or vulva-owner.
By CHEEX 2 min read

How To: Oral

Regardless of your gender, oral is all about having fun giving, or being able to completely let go and relax to fully receive.
By CHEEX 3 min read

How To: Anal Play & Penetration

Anal sex. For a very long-time taboo, anal has recently entered the mainstream. And for good reason: whether you have a prostate or not, the nerve endings around the anus make it one of the most pleasurable parts of the body to play with.
By CHEEX 3 min read

How To: 5 Sex Positions for Disabled People

Learn 5 sex positions that you can adapt with common household items (and some cool products) to reduce pain, fatigue, and difficulty during sex with disabilities. Get the best out of communication with partners to make your sex inclusive and pleasure focused and begin to break free from shame and stigma.
By Ginny 7 min read

How To: Scissoring

Myth or reality? Probably the most often lesbian sex position depicted in porn, it is neither the only position for people with vulvas, nor inevitable. So who is it for? And how to do it?
By CHEEX 3 min read

Standing Positions 101: A Beginner’s Guide

Sex doesn’t always have to happen lying down! Standing positions can add excitement and variety, catering to all genders and orientations, with or without penetration!
By CHEEX 2 min read

How To: Spooning

Spooning, the perfect position for building trust and intimacy. But it is more versatile than you think. Learn new ways to spice up this timeless classic by incorporating clever tweaks.
By Felix Jung 3 min read

How To: The Rider (known as the “Cowgirl”)

Ena Dahl
The Cowgirl Position is due for a gender-neutral rebrand and is better described by the term The Rider. One of the three most common and popular sex positions, it places the receiver on top and in charge. Because it can be quite energy demanding, this guide includes multiple options to vary it and make it less strenuous for the riding top.
By Ena Dahl 5 min read

How To: Doggy

Doggy is exciting, animalistic, rough. If you are into that. Learning how to master the balance between communication and domination will give you the key to an incredibly satisfying adventure.
By Felix Jung 3 min read

NICE TO MEET YOU – Charlie Forde

Named “Best Female Porn Performer of 2022” by San Fran Pornstar Festival, Charlie Forde is not only excellent in her field, but also an incredibly honest and authentic person.
By CHEEX 2 min read

CHEEX Talks: Opening Up – Communication in Relationship(s) with Leanne Yau

Why is communicating in romantic relationships a challenge for most of us? How do you deal with jealousy? And what are non-monogamous relationships really?
By CHEEX 1 min read