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Chemsex – Weed & Sex

I've always been the stoner girlfriend in my relationships. I use weed daily, tend lovingly to my outdoor cannabis plants, and most of all I love fucking while high. Yet, most of my partners have been on a spectrum between cannabis-indifferent to cannabis-averse when we first start dating. Regardless, a few months into our relationship, my partners turn into avid cannabis users. Together, we discover the abundant pleasures of cannabis-infused intimacy. I'm very clear about not pushing anyone into using substances, but I offer a safe container when my partners inevitably express interest. I strongly believe that proper education can allow people to form healthy relationships with substances. I especially hold this belief in regards to chemsex. So, I'll break down the process I go through with partners as they learn how to have fantastic sex while high!
By Sam's Cat 9 min read

How to Be a Boss in Role-play

In the world of kink, one of the most popular fantasies and interests out there is playing around with power dynamics! Power dynamics are often associated with BDSM, and role-play stands out as one of the most effective ways to express, play with, experiment and explore these dynamics.
By Emerson Karsh 7 min read

Outdoor Sex – An Interview with the TravellingLovers

Nature can be an endless source of inspiration if it comes to Sex. Especially in summer, when the days get longer and the nights hotter, outdoor sex can provide variety and excitement. It also takes a bit of courage and risk to embark on an outdoor adventure, but it brings passion and a breath of fresh air into relationships or partnerships.
By Lilith Ga 8 min read

Dirty Talk Tips: Make Your Partner Beg for More

Kali Sudhra
Like most things in life, learning how to dirty talk takes time and practice. A lot of you might be thinking: “how can I get started if I haven’t ever explored dirty talk before?!” Although it’s very intimidating to start any new sexual skill, you have to just make the jump. There is no other way we are able to learn new things if we don’t just try.
By Kali Sudhra 7 min read

So, You Wanna Be A Kinkster?

Before you turn the proverbial sex volume all the way up, creating kink boundaries is integral to becoming a kinkster.
By Alexis Smiley Smith 5 min read

What Is Ethical Porn?

How do we define, consume, and search for ethical porn? Two erotic industry professionals tell us about the ethical porn movement.
By Alexis Smiley Smith 6 min read

Sex(work) — A conversation with Jules

At CHEEX, you invest in content to enrich your sex life. While this online platform encounters occasional legal challenges, they pale in comparison to the struggles faced by sex workers in the field. The following is a dialogue with Jules, a sex worker in her thirties whom I encountered a couple of years ago at a festival. What especially interested me are her clients, many of whom live with disabilities, as well as her activism.
By Rosa Stubenberg 6 min read

Pride & Disability

July is Disability Pride Month. We want to talk about this history of this month and its importance going forward.
By Sofia Righetti 6 min read

How Soon After an Abortion Can You Have Sex?

How does an abortion influence our body. How soon can we have sex again and is there a difference between when it is possible to have oral, vaginal or anal sex? Find all the answers you were looking for here.
By Anna Wim 4 min read

The Science of Voice Attractiveness: What Makes a Voice Irresistible and Why

Do you ask people to send you a voice message before you go on a first date? Maybe you should. According to studies, beauty is not only in the eyes but also in the ears of the beholder. Let’s dive into the topic of voice attractiveness…
By Charis Uster 7 min read

NICE TO MEET YOU – Magia Rosa

Magia Rosa are an authentic couple who have also been recording and sharing their lust and passion since the beginning of the pandemic. The curiosity to try different things, to be independent and to write their own story creatively was the incentive to produce amateur porn. The risk and excitement of discovering their comfort… Read More »NICE TO MEET YOU – Magia Rosa
By CHEEX 2 min read

Dos and Don’ts: Your Ultimate Guide to Lube

All about lube... we have teamed up with nevernot to give you an extensive guide on the uses of lube.
By nevernot 5 min read

The Pleasure Diaries – Sex At 50

CHEEX and The Pleasure Society invite a series of writers to share their experiences, thoughts, and feelings about how their sexuality has a connection with their age. Or how it doesn’t at all. Our sexuality constantly changes and transforms itself in all kinds of shapes. Deep dive into the lives of four different writers that will take you by the hand in some of the things that have shaped their sexuality today.
By Æbele Kluwer 5 min read

Sex-Positivity & Feminism

When hearing about sex-positivity, many think it is only a matter of being able to sleep with whomever one wants. In reality, this is but a fraction of what this growingly popular movement stands for.
By Anastasia Pinheiro 5 min read

How to be Sexually Empowered?

Eliza Lawrence
One of my favourite sexuality coaches once mentioned, "Sexual empowerment is vast and complex—not a linear graph, not a one-way street, but an ever-unfolding prism."
By Eliza Lawrence 5 min read

How To Prepare For Anal Sex

Welcome to your extensive guide that helps you prepare for anal sex.
By Kevin Junk 5 min read