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Theresa Lachner is a sex counsellor, blogger and author of the CHEEX-exclusive series Lovebooster—a guided audio meditation helping people in relationships to nurture appreciation both for themselves and their partner. We interviewed her for insights into her work.

Whilst blow jobs often seem to be expected, eating pussy still isn’t. For a lot of women having someone worship their vulva feels absurd. And I am using the word worship for a reason. So much shame exists around the look, the smell and taste of the pussy. Especially as the vulva is carried unseen on the body. Men wear their genitalia on the outside, where everyone can see them, evoking different kinds of insecurities, but the vulva as the hidden sexual organ has a different kind of forbiddance to it, a different kind of access and vulnerability. A lot of women are insecure about their pussies, yet all are beautiful and worth being worshipped and loved.

Erotic bodywork involves touching and massaging the body. Before embarking on a journey of exploration of one’s own body, it’s important to establish expectations with the person treating you.

“Did you…you know?” Did I what? Climax? Cum? Finish? Dare I say—orgasm? “Orgasm” shouldn’t be a dirty word! Experiencing pleasure is a natural and wonderful part of being human.

The realm of hormonal contraceptives is vast—from the different generations of pills to rings, patches, implants and injections. However, there are effective hormone-free alternatives worth considering. In this article, we'll explore various options that cater to different preferences, while emphasizing increased body awareness and shared responsibility.

Hormones and adrenaline flood the body, feelings of happiness make us float for a moment. Not only does an orgasm make us feel good, it also has a positive effect on our physical and mental well-being. Isn't that reason enough to celebrate it?

When we consider the world of pleasure beyond the standard handjob, the taboo on masturbation for penis owners creates such a missed opportunity. Sara Brown delves into the reasons why and shares testimonials from penis owners who’ve elevated their solo play.

Anyone who has found themselves in a long-term relationship has probably wondered at some point what it would be like to sleep with or date other people… perhaps even together? After all, threesomes are some of the most common fantasies! Even if we are happy and in a secure monogamous relationship, it is normal to desire others. We might want to add some variety to our existing sex life along the way. And more and more exclusive couples are indulging those yearnings for connection by opening their relationships, exploring swinging, or attending play parties.

2023 reminds us that we are still at the beginning of the 2020s - changes are quietly announcing themselves.

Did you know that searches for prostate massages online tripled between 2004 and 2017? Once considered niche, prostate play is gaining popularity, especially among heterosexual cisgender men.

Meet JoLa 992, a couple from Germany. With their genuine love-making, they are helping counter mainstream porn and stand for a truer image of pornography and sexuality.

Porn is transforming. However, not just towards virtual reality experiences or monthly subscription services that offer specific porn upon request. The movement we are talking about today is audio erotica. Was telephone sex reinvented for the female gender? And what does covid have to do with this?

Here's a vocabulary guide that breaks down the common language among polyamorists and ethical non-monogamists.

Edging is the practice of stopping stimulation right before you are about to orgasm. This practice has many great benefits. Find out more here.

Want to know how to masturbate in a way that fulfils all of your personal desires and needs? Find out here.

There is no freedom without sexual liberation. Here is a tribute to some of the Black activists who have made a difference.