If You’re Horny and You Know It, Clap Your Hands!

For centuries, being horny was reserved for filthy men and dirty whores. Women especially were (and are) not to be horny, at least not outspokenly. Instead of joy, being horny brought us shame. This makes it even more important to embrace our own horniness.

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It’s a public service, a revolution even, according to Vanity Fair.

Like many sexual things, we often hide our lust, our yearnings, our thirst. They have no place in the public sphere. Yet, these feelings and urges can actually support us in many ways, when they are not suppressed.

Sexual energy is highly creative

If we allow our sexual energy to flow, we can experience more lust for life, more creativity, and strength. We can learn how to focus this energy and work with it even outside of the bedroom. When we embrace our horniness, we not only start pleasuring ourselves, we start pleasuring our life.

Just to be clear

Being openly horny doesn’t mean crossing the boundaries of anyone or starting to hump everything in sight. It also isn’t an excuse for any inappropriate behaviour.

That being said, we can celebrate our libido, we can feel sexy, we can want pleasure! “We” being every human on this planet. This is no place for shame. Whether you feel like declaring your horniness to your friends or to that one person you are especially horny for, whether it is you celebrating your lust for life or taking an afternoon off to celebrate the lust for yourself, whether it is you indulging in delicious porn or consensually acting out your own fantasies: Allow your sexual energy to flow! To get in the mood of the day, here is a song recommendation just for you: “Fxck it then” by Yaya Bey.

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