What Is Rimming?
When the tongue pampers the anus and perineum, it’s called a rim job, anilingus, tongue anal or even after licking. The anal area is particularly sensitive which is why the gentle touching of it with the tongue or lips can be very stimulating. The best way to find out if you feel like it is to just try it out – talk to your partner about it if you fancy giving or receiving anilingus.
Just like before anal sex, you should thoroughly clean your anus in the shower beforehand and ideally you may want to take an anal shower so that no fecal bacteria can be ingested orally by your partner. Also keep in mind that many venereal diseases -such as HP viruses or gonorrhea-, can also be transmitted via anal, which is why you should use a liner for safe sex.
As with anal sex, you may want to get used to anal stimulation first. Licking your anus is something very intimate that you must actively engage in, but when the time comes, you may not be able to get enough of it!
Circular movements around the outer sphincter, alternating in between licking with the entire tongue over the anus, until the gentle penetration of the tongue into the anus entrance -where most nerves end-, will trigger some guaranteed sensations of ecstasy. Also, during foreplay, rimming can be a great way to perfectly prepare for the penetration of the penis or toy, since the anus relaxes gently and is moistened by the saliva.
The Most Comfortable Positions
Doggy Style: The receiving person kneels on all fours as usual with the doggy position and can be given anal from behind.
The frog: The receiving person lies on their back, bends their legs and pulls them towards the head with their hands. The anus is then very accessible and can be spoilt extensively.
Facesitting: The person giving is lying on their back and the recipient is squatting with their bottom over their face. The upper person can move totally freely and can additionally stimulate themselves and navigate the partner’s movements from above.
69: The classic, in which both partners pleasure the other orally and at the same time. A stimulation variation between the anus and other areas such as the clitoris, vagina, perineum, scrotum or penis can be particularly stimulating.
A little tip so that the anilingus also tastes good: lubricant with taste. Enjoy trying it out!
