What Is Rimming?
The act of the tongue pampering the anus and perineum is many things—a rim job, anilingus, tongue anal or even after-licking. The anal area is particularly sensitive, which is why the gentle touch with the tongue or lips can be very stimulating. The best way to find out if you’re interested is to try it and talk to your partner about whether you fancy giving or receiving anilingus.
Just like before anal sex, you should thoroughly clean your anus in the shower beforehand. Ideally, you may want to take an anal shower to ensure that your partner can ingest no faecal bacteria. Also keep in mind that many venereal diseases, such as HPV viruses or gonorrhoea, can also be transmitted via anal contact, so it’s important to use a liner for safe sex.
As with anal sex, we recommend getting used to anal stimulation first. Anilingus is an intimate activity that requires active engagement, but when the time comes, you may not be able to get enough of it!
Start with circular movements around the outer sphincter, alternating with entire tongue licks over the anus. Gradually progress to gentle tongue penetration at the anus entrance, where many nerves are concentrated, ensuring heightened sensations of ecstasy. Incorporating rimming into foreplay can be an excellent way to prepare for subsequent penetration with a penis or a toy since the anus relaxes gently and is moistened by saliva.
