If you’re curious about leveling up your sex life but don’t know where to start, our Pleasure Academy has you covered. This hands-on sex education section of the CHEEX platform walks you through everything you could possibly need to know about sexual pleasure, intimacy, and connection — taught by the best of the best: sexperts and performers. After all, who knows sex better than the people doing it for a living?
Before diving in, it’s worth highlighting why this matters. Research shows that sexual fulfillment has wide-ranging benefits for both your body and brain. Regular sexual pleasure can boost happiness, intimacy, and overall life satisfaction. A healthy sex life is also linked to improved immune function, lower stress levels, better sleep, and a brighter mood, reminding us that pleasure isn’t just fun, it’s good for your whole body.
With all that in mind, here are five cherry-picked tutorials from the Pleasure Academy that can help you improve your sex life. They offer fresh perspectives, practical techniques, and exercises that reconnect you with yourself and your partner while also reinforcing the basics — consent, communication, and curiosity included.
1. Libido & Desire – Part 1 & 2 – CHEEX Original
Understanding and nurturing our sexual desire is key to taking control of our pleasure. In this two-part “Libido & Desire“ tutorial, Cleo King and Jonte explore how factors like stress, nutrition, hormones, and health can shape libido, and why there’s no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ level of desire. Learn how to tune into your desire and discover what fuels your drive and what doesn’t.
2. Communication: Consent – CHEEX Exclusive
“The most important factor for any sexual relationship is consent”, that’s how sex worker, porn performer, and sex educator Jamal Phoenix opens up our CHEEX Exclusive tutorial on consent. Consent should be the baseline for every encounter. “Communication: Consent” breaks down what consent really means, why it matters, and how to communicate and respect boundaries like a pro.
3. Communication: Dirty Talk – CHEEX Exclusive
Jamal Phoenix dives into the juicy psychology of dirty talk, showing how a few choice words can seriously amp up arousal, boost communication, and bring you closer to your partner. “Communication: Dirty Talk” also covers consent, respect, and open communication so that both of you feel hot, safe, and totally on board.
4. Pleasure Mapping Tutorial
Berlin Sex School introduces “Pleasure Mapping”, a playful practice that encourages exploring your body through mindful touch from a partner. It helps you tune into every little sensation, ditch expectations, and get way better at communicating what feels amazing (and what doesn’t). Think of it as redefining pleasure on your own terms and discovering your personal sweet spots by sensing into your body.
5. Edging 101 with Bishop & Noir – CHEEX Original
Performers Bishop Black & Noir So dive into the art of edging, showing how teasing yourself, or your partner, right on the edge of orgasm can seriously up the pleasure factor. In “Edging 101 with Bishop & Noir” they break down the benefits, from heightened intensity to deeper connection, and walk you through hands-on solo and partnered techniques. By the end, you’ll have the tricks to translate edging into your own sex life for maximum, mind-blowing pleasure.
Final Thoughts
I picked these five tutorials because they hit every sweet spot: from understanding and tuning into your own desire, to communicating like a pro with your partner, exploring playful techniques, and heightening pleasure for both of you. Each tutorial offers practical, hands-on skills while keeping curiosity, consent, and connection at the forefront. Think of it as your ultimate cheat sheet for a sex life that’s more confident, adventurous, and totally unforgettable.
