There is a lot of content out there about how to give the perfect cunnilingus, or the perfect blowjob. You can find new and exciting sex positions online, learn how to squirt, how to practice edging or how to have pleasure anal sex. But, in my opinion once you have made it to the point that you are giving head to someone or find yourself with your legs behind your ears upside down in someone’s bedroom – you’ve already figured most of it out. What we often forget is that the most sex we didn’t have – fails long before the clothes come off. I can’t say this enough: sex begins long before you enter the bedroom (or wherever you filthy animals chose to get it on).
If you have been anxious and screaming at your colleagues all day, don’t expect yourself to be totally chill and sensual as soon as you arrive on a date or at home. When we think about foreplay we’ve been taught to think about stuff like kissing, cunnilingus or fingering…basically anything that isn’t penetrative sex. Now this definition of foreplay is not only queerphobic and heterocentric, it is also robbing you of a hell of a lot of fun, no matter what your sexuality or gender identity might be.
Here is what I need you to know: EVERYTHING IS FOREPLAY.
The body lotion you put on before you leave the house? That’s foreplay. The 15 minutes of meditation you do in the morning? That’s foreplay. Your yoga class after work? Most definitely foreplay. Anything that helps you relax, feel good about yourself or makes you feel connected to your partner(s) is foreplay.
Foreplay is so important, because it helps to increase sexual arousal and can lead to a more pleasurable and satisfying sexual experience for both partners. Foreplay can include basically anything you want it to include. From physical touch, kissing, caressing, oral sex, or other intimate or fun activities that stimulate your body and mind. Using audio porn as foreplay involves listening to sexually explicit audio content before you go on a hot date or with your partner in order to sexually stimulate and arouse each other. Here are some tips to make the most of your audio porn experience.
Use Audio Porn to Relax Your Mind and Let Go
Listening to audio content can be relaxing for several reasons. And relaxation is the key to most good sexual experiences. Certain sounds and music can have a calming effect on the brain, reducing stress and anxiety levels. Audio content, such as guided meditations, soundscapes or mindfulness practices, use techniques like deep breathing and visualization to help individuals relax and unwind and listening to an engaging story or narrative can be a form of escapism, allowing individuals to distract themselves from the difficulties of the day and enter a state of relaxation.
Consume It Anywhere You Want (With Headphones)
Have you tried listening to porn in a room full of people? I have and I can tell you it is HOT. One of my favorite parts about audio porn is listening to it when I am on my way to a date. On the train, on the bike in the car – however you cruise your city – audio porn can make it a next level experience. You will get to your destination with a sexy mindset, slightly turned on, and ready to radiate that erotic energy onto your date.
A Tool to Communicate Your Desire
What better way to teach your sex partners what you want than by sending them a very, very detailed description in the form of an erotic audio story? Often we struggle to put into words what about a specific sexual situation turns us on. Audio porn literally has all the right words for you. Choose a story that hits the spot for you, send it over and have a chat with your partner about what you’re listening to.
Use Audio Porn Together
There are many ways you can explore audio porn during your sexual encounters together. Try different types of audio porn and see what works best for both of you. Try an immersive experience!: Close your eyes and listen to the sounds and descriptions in the audio. Imagine what’s happening and let yourself be fully immersed in the experience. While listening, touch and pleasure each other in ways that complement the audio content. Finish together: Try to reach orgasm together or take turns, depending on what you both prefer.
