Exploring Kinks: Humiliation

October 10th, 2023 8 pm CEST
How to expand your sexual experience

Humiliation play can be liberating and healing. Don’t believe us? Come join in to find out. 

Humiliation is understood as the emotion you feel when your status is lowered in front of others. Humiliation involves abasement of pride and dignity, and with it loss of status or standing. Shame, on the other hand, is a sort-of subset of humiliation; it is a painful feeling of humiliation or distress caused by the consciousness of “wrong” or “foolish” behavior. How and why somebody can be shamed is very personal and highly dependent on cultural background and life experiences. In this workshop we will explore the basics of humiliation play, how to get started, tips and tricks for making it hot, setting boundaries, safety precautions, and how to relish in this act with your partners or subs. You can stay completely anonymous in this workshop while still engaging in the chat and asking any questions you might have. 

Note: This class is an intro class, so if you feel that you have explored humiliation play a lot in your life, this may not be the class for you! Accessibility note: this class is in English without a sign language interpreter for the moment.

Date & Time

What to expect

Duration: 45 minutes

Live Session: For your confidentiality, the session will not be recorded.

Active participation possible: You are invited to join with camera and microphone

Members only: Exclusive for CHEEX-Members

Included in the sessions

  • A shame-free space for your questions
  • A supportive group environment 
  • Led by a sex & relationship therapist

About the host

Kali Sudhra

About the host

Kali Sudhra (they/she) is an activist, writer, dominatrix, sex worker and educator born in Tkaronto, unceded Indigenous territory in the settler-colonial state of Canada. They are dedicated to dismantling structures of white supremacy within feminism, and directly challenges gatekeeping of feminist spaces. The main focus of their work is exploring and presenting dissident sexuality, directly challenging white heteronormativity by using porn and various forms of sex work as a medium. Photo credits: Aleix Rodón from Xconfessions@thekalisudhra

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