Five years ago, my husband had a crush on someone. Their chemistry was so beautiful, that I wanted to give him the freedom to explore that connection. In the end it didn’t work out between them and he chose to be with me, but I still fantasize about the two of them together.
I see them at a festival together, I see their smiles, her short skirt and her top without a bra… In my fantasies, he takes her home after they’ve been to the festival and on their way to her home I can already sense his lust. When they get to her house, when they are supposed to say goodbye and hug each other—that’s where the action really begins.
At this point I usually cum already. When I then continue to fantasize, I imagine his finger entering her from behind or I see them doing all kinds of things inside her house.
The most arousing thing about the fantasy is the lust I see in his eyes. When I see how he lusts after someone else, I get super aroused myself. We’ve known each other for 15 years so the way he lusts after me is different.
In my fantasy, I’m a voyeur, but I’m not really there. My husband knows about the fantasy though. Sometimes when we’re together, we role play and I pretend to be her. And then I can see the lust in his eyes that I would expect him to have for her.
About Yes Please!
All fantasies are literal transcriptions from real-life interviews. The “Yes Please!” project was initiated by Dutch researchers and authors Lucas De Man and Mariëlle de Goede. Inspired by the famous writer Nancy Friday, the Two set out to discover what people fantasize about today. They took a little caravan and converted into a recording study and stationed it at festivals, conferences, and other large gatherings to interview people from all walks of life. The result is the largest study of sexual fantasies in the Netherlands and Belgium, brought to you by a liberating book under the same name (currently only available in Dutch).