Holistic: queer

Here's a vocabulary guide that breaks down the common language among polyamorists and ethical non-monogamists.

CHEEX and The Pleasure Society invite a series of writers to share their experiences, thoughts, and feelings about how their sexuality has a connection with their age. Or how it doesn't at all. Our sexuality constantly changes and transforms itself in all kinds of shapes. Deep dive into the lives of four different writers that will take you by the hand in some of the things that have shaped their sexuality today.

July is Disability Pride Month. We want to talk about this history of this month and its importance going forward.

Asexuality does not mean having no sexuality at all. It is often assumed that if you are asexual, then you are likely to be repulsed by sex. Sure, there are asexual people who are repulsed by anything sexual, but there are those who are quite the opposite. There are many asexual people who enjoy masturbation, who have kinks, those who still engage in sexual activities with other people for their own pleasure, and yes, asexual people who enjoy pornography and other erotic material.

Getting regularly tested for STIs is necessary for your sexual health, and is recommended to be done at least every six months. Unfortunately, it is not that easy to do so – and that’s why we need to fight to make sexual healthcare more accessible.

I JUST FOLLOW MY TIMELINE… of feeling more alive after having survived some tough years, enjoying sex even more in older age, becoming convinced that ethical non-monogamy is my thing, and how this all unfolded.