By The Fireplace

Every Friday we publish a fantasy about a certain topic. This story comes from Rosa



My most recent fantasy takes place in a holiday home with an older man. Someone who’s really a lot older, around 50 years old, with grey hair, but still good in shape. The fantasy begins by the fireplace, on the couch, while we’re having a glass of wine.

He initiates the action

I don’t expect it but I am happy to go along with it in the moment. The man is very dominant but the sex begins quite tenderly. I wear my favorite red-laced lingerie and the setting around us feels very romantic, with the warmth of the fireplace and candles… Even if something kinky happens in my fantasies, it’s always still within a romantic setting. And I’ve always had a thing for cottages and holiday homes, especially when they’re quite isolated and it’s just the two of you there.



If you want to read more fantasies, head to #Fantasy Friday.

About Yes Please!


All fantasies are literal transcriptions from real-life interviews. The “Yes Please!” project was initiated by Dutch researchers and authors Lucas De Man and Mariëlle de Goede. Inspired by the famous writer Nancy Friday, the Two set out to discover what people fantasize about today. They took a little caravan and converted into a recording study and stationed it at festivals, conferences, and other large gatherings to interview people from all walks of life. The result is the largest study of sexual fantasies in the Netherlands and Belgium, brought to you by a liberating book under the same name (currently only available in Dutch).


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